20 Questions to Ask Your Spouse on Date Night

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20 Questions to Ask Your Spouse on Date Night

Don't settle for surface-level connection. Cultivate deeper intimacy with your spouse using these questions!

Tired of date nights spent talking about the kids and work? Looking for a deeper connection with your spouse? 

Spice up your next date night with these questions! These 20 questions will help you and your spouse break free from the usual conversations and develop a deeper connection. You’ll come away from your night with deeper insight into your spouse’s (and your own) faith, needs, hopes, and heart. 

This is just the beginning. Dive in deeper with our Virtual Reconnect Marriage Retreat!

20 Questions for Deeper Intimacy with Your Spouse

1. What are your 5-year goals? 10-year goals? How can I help you achieve them?

2. What’s something I’ve done for you that you’ll never forget and why?

3. What keeps you up at night, and how can I come alongside you to support you?

4. What are your favorite parts of our relationship?

5. What parts of our dating life do you miss the most?

6. Where do you see the Lord the most in our relationship?

7. Why do you think the Lord paired us together? 

8. What good qualities do I bring out in you? What bad qualities do I bring out in you?

9. What do you want to ask me (to do/to give) but never have?

10. What’s something you enjoy doing with me? For me?

11. What’s something that makes you feel the most alive in this season?

12. If we could go anywhere together, where would you like to go? 

13. On a scale of 1-10, how loved do you feel by me right now? What are some specific ways we can bring that number up?

14. What’s the worst piece of advice anyone has ever given you?

15. How would you spend your time if the electricity went out for 24 hours?

16. How is our sex life? Is there anything we can change?

17. Do you think either of us has changed since we’ve been married? How so? 

18. Is there anything about our lives that we can or should simplify or stop doing?

19. One year from now, what memory do you hope we have of this coming year together?

20. How can I pray for you?

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During this virtual retreat, you’ll learn how to reconnect and renew not only your marriage but also your thoughts and feelings that reside inside your body.

In true Rev style, we believe that in order to cultivate unity and connection in your marriage, it’s important to bring our bodies into the conversation as well.

What's Included

– Biblical teaching & encouragement from marriage experts Don & Renee Worcester

– Revelation Fitness & Rev on the Mat workouts for ALL fitness ability levels

– Be Still & Be Loved meditation

– The opportunity to cultivate a deeper connection with your spouse

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